About me

What:
So…what are you? The notorious mixie question… I am read as being anything from Southern European to East Indian to North African and back again. However, most infer that I am either “Middle Eastern”, a group that is in fact quite ethnically  diverse, or the all-encompassing “Spanish” (usually referring to South American), which is another historically mixed group. Due to the historical-social-political nature of identity, “what are you” is not an easy (nor at times appropriate) question to answer, however here is what I understand about my heritage: my father is from Jamaica and is of (presumably) West African & Sephardi Jewish decent and identifies as “brown” in the Jamaican sense (ie mixed). My mother identifies as Irish Canadian but also acknowledges her Italian and English heritages. Having said all that, I currently identify as Black mixed.

Who:
I grew up in rural Ontario, Canada with very few people of colour, let alone mixed people to relate to, and even less of a vocabulary to help develop a framework of what exactly it means to be “mixed-race” in this country. I often felt isolated and insecure as I tried to understand the racialization that I experienced in my very homogeneous environment. However, it was equally difficult when I later was immersed into a more diverse setting, which totally took me by surprise. As an adult, this continues to be a subject I spend a lot of time thinking about and I believe that it will be a life-long journey. I intend to share what I learn along the way here with the hopes of providing support for others who are also interested in investigating their identity. I am also 1/3rd of the 3MW Collective and a huge fan of decolonization.

Why:
I have always dreamed of creating a space where mixed people from across Canada could come together and form a community. Unlike other groups who may appear to have more evident identifying markers, it’s not always easy to find one another, as we come in every colour of the human rainbow. Additionally, Canada is a very big country with a mixed-identified population that is growing exponentially and thus ought to have a voice. Having said that, Canada is generally not comfortable with talking about race, so I  hoped that it could potentially provide a catalyst to highlight the experiences of people of colour/ Indigenous groups. Along those lines, I feel that it’s important for me to acknowledge the privileges that I experience by having been born in Canada with light skin, an able-body, identifying as straight/cis, and speaking English (more on mixed privilege). For these reasons, it is my desire & intention to leverage these privileges to help create an inclusive platform for all mixed-identified people. So, whether you are thriving, developing, or struggling with your mixed identity, I hope that Canadian mixed people of all kinds can find a home here.

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10 Responses to About me

  1. tasha says:

    thanks for stopping by my blog…cool to find this site and learn a bit more about “mixies” in canada. i think it’s great how you are are trying to create a space for more community and voice for your country. all the best! ;)

  2. drness says:

    VERY nice site! You’ve gone to considerable effort to put it together–congrats! We of mixed race are a thriving, explosive population that needs a voice. Although mine is American, I am honored to be invited to explore the Canadian voice as well! Should you read my book, Diversity is Me (survival guide for mixed race people), you will learn that humans share universal needs and tendencies across gender, age, race, creed or culture. More importantly, although most of us struggle with the question, “Who am I?”, we of mixed race seem to share that extra obstacle of pressure to choose one race over another; the guilt of either refusing to do so, or actually taking that leap! The struggle to belong is also common. I attempt to assuage these roadblocks to self-discovery and identity in my book. I hope you’ll read it and learn from it because the message is universal whether you’re Canadian, American, or any other “an”: it’s okay to be exactly who you are; embrace ALL that is you! Thank you again for the invite! I look forward to learning more from you!

  3. ES says:

    WOW! This site is amazing! It’s surely a labour of love but something that is a necessary resource in today’s world and you should proud of taking this initiative and doing such a great job with it. The look is sharp and the choice of focus is relevant and useful. Keep it up!

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